Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Christmas Eve Photos

Family Photo, after church on December 23

Setting up is hard to do with 6 of us


Enjoying a weekend pre-Christmas visit from Jenny's cousin Elizabeth, who drove up from Pittsburgh.

Two of the James, in Grand Blanc on Christmas Eve


The clan

John really liked this remote control "dirt bike"

After Grand Blanc, we swung over to Davison for a visit


At Meijer Gardens on December 23

Christmas Day


If you were a fly on our wall this Christmas morning, these are the things you might have heard and seen...

And then, we added children.

Waking up sleepy-head Dad.
It's a team project.
But watch out for when Dad is just playing 'possum. He might fight back.
John (age 5), in a voice of disbelief that would have made any teenager proud: "Underwear? Really?"

John (5) to his siblings, who had given him a Monster Truck game for the Wii: "Thank you! Thank you!"
Margaret (8) in reply: "Unh. Ok, no more hugging!"

Helen (22 months): ________________________ (That represents dead silence, as she methodically consumed two squares of Ghiradelli chocolate from her stocking for breakfast.)

Sorry, Mom. Can't smile. I have chocolate to eat.

James (11), in a voice of resignation (tinged with a bit of pride in having guessed the contents of the package): "May I open my socks now?"
Nope. James considered, and these were definitely not socks. (A new book light from his brother and sister.)

Margaret (8): "Oh no! Helen has finger paints? Bye bye nice new purple bathroom walls."

She liked the Harry Potter Wii game from her brothers. Can you tell?
 
Helen (22 months): "Hey! That's mine!" (So proud that this is one of her clearest full sentences yet.)

Most of Helen's presents were "recycled" - gifts we already had in the house, refurbished with new batteries as needed. She seemed fine with that. Although, her absolute favorite was the gift she had picked out for herself while shopping with me last week - a new ball.
John (5): (SHRIEK!) Thank you, Mommy! I've always wanted one! (And so, it begins. We gave in on the electronics and gave him a Nintendo DSi. Price is not so bad now that the DS3 came out. And now we may have to surgically remove it from his hands. Hoping we can all resist the temptation to let him carry it everywhere, joining the ranks of little siblings everywhere we go - kids sports events at school, doctors' waiting rooms, etc. - who are sitting comatose, glued to their portable game device or parents' smartphone instead of watching the world, talking to their parent, and generally learning through healthy boredom.)

Close-up of the kids. James was trying to look odd, because that is what 11-year-olds like to do. But, a photo with 3 out of 4 smiles captured is a success in my book. 

Thursday, December 20, 2012

How to converse with a curious kindergartener

My conversation with 5-year-old John today while driving home from James's middle school Christmas concert:

"Mom, how sharp is a steak knife?"

"Um, I don't know. There are all different kinds of steak knives, and they aren't all the same sharpness."

"But what kinds are there?"

"Well, there are serrated and smooth, and different brands, and..I don't know. Why do you want to know?"

"I just want to know how sharp a steak knife is."

"Well, I can't really tell you, John. I don't know a way to describe sharpness." I was now getting a bit frustrated. I was trying to drive home in the dark, in the rain, with tired kids. Why was I having this conversation, anyway? In a flash of annoyance, I answered randomly, "Seven, John. They are seven sharp."

"Whoa!" His delighted giggle was surprised and immediate. "That is awesome!"


Saturday, December 1, 2012

Sweet Mom Moment

Helen is at that age where I can be stunned at any moment with how much she has learned, and how quickly. I think she continues to be least "talkative" of any of our 4 kids were at comparable ages, but she certainly does communicate just fine. She uses just a few favorite words often, punctuated by new or occasional words for clarity, and all well-seasoned with expressive pointing and gestures.

She has been adding language, I know, because she now clearly understands so much of what we say. Just in the last few days, she will often repeat words after you, whereas even last week she would refuse to utter new sounds, even to blankly repeat them. Now, she repeats them and acts as if she has always known them and wonders why you are asking her to say them now.

Today, she had another small language breakthrough that was fun to witness. We were sitting in a small lobby, waiting for a car repair. I had brought a bag of picture books to pass the hour. The one she chose today was a chunky, oversized board book with few words. Each page had photographs of baby faces, labeled with a common emotion. Sleepy. Angry. Shy.

"Helen, look, these babies feel Sad."

"Sad." She repeated this after me, quite clearly.

"Here are some happy babies."

"Hop! Baby Hop!"

"Yes, the babies feel happy."

Our scintillating conversation went on in this vein for a while. Then she got bored and asked to nurse. She plopped sideways in my lap, snuggled her head into the crook of my arm, and requested, "Ide!" Then, unusually, instead of wriggling impatiently or pulling at my shirt, she paused, looked up at me, and said, "Baby hop!"

I thought a minute. "Helen, do you mean that you feel happy now?"

She silently grinned and nodded enthusiastically. What more could a mom really want from a day?